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More inspiring thoughts to remember Vivien

Love for all reasons

How could I make you love me?

Don't say you love me

Thank you for your love

You're my inspiration

You're so beautiful

Vivien

Forever I will be here

Because of love

Inspiring Notes

You know, love is just like someone waiting for a bus. When the bus comes, you look at it and you say to yourself "eeee...so full....cannot sit down".

"I'll wait for the next one". So you let the bus go and waited for the second bus. Then the second bus came, you looked at it you say, "eeee...this bus is so old...so shabby!"  So you let the bus go and again, decided to wait for the next bus.

After a while another bus came, it's not crowded, not old but you said, "eeee... not air-conditioned ...better wait for the next one".  So again you let the bus go and decided to wait for the next bus.  Then the sky started to get dark as it is getting late. You panicked and jumped immediately inside the next bus. It is not until much later that you found out that you had boarded the wrong bus!

So you wasted your time and money waiting  for what you want! Even if an air-conditioned bus comes, you can't ensure that the air-conditioned bus won't break down or whether or not the airconditioner will be too cold for you.  So people... wanting to get what you want is not wrong. But it wouldn't hurt to give other person a chance, right? If you find that the "bus" doesn't suit you just press the red button and get off the bus! (as simple as that!)
Hey who said life is fair??? The best thing to do is be observant and open while you scrutinize the bus.  If it doesn't suit you, get off. But you must always have an extra something which you could use for the next bus that comes.

But wait........ I'm sure you have this experience before...You saw a bus coming (the bus you want, of course) you flagged it  but the driver acted as if he did not see you and zoomed pass you!  It just wasn't meant for you! The bottom line is, being loved is like waiting for a bus you want. Getting on the bus and appreciating the bus by giving it a chance depends totally on you. If you haven't made any choice, WALK!  Walking is like being out of love. The good side of it is you can still choose any bus you want... the rest who couldn't afford another ride would just have to be content with the bus they rode on, ugly or not.

One more thing.... sometimes its better to choose a bus you are already familiar with rather than gamble with a bus that is unfamiliar to you. But then again, life wouldn't be complete without the risks involved.

BUT THERE'S ONE BUS THAT I FORGOT TO TELL YOU ABOUT - THE BUS THAT  YOU DON'T HAVE TO WAIT FOR...IT  WILL JUST STOP ON ITS OWN AND WILL ASK YOU TO COME INSIDE AND TAKE A FREE RIDE FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE...

You Never Lose By Loving
You Always Lose By Holding Back

: CHANCE...OR CHOICE?

When we meet the right person to love when we're at the
right place at the right time, that's chance. When you meet
someone you're attracted to, that's not a choice. That's
chance. Being caught up in a moment (and there's a lot of
couples who get together because of this) is not a 
choice. That's also a chance.

The difference is what happens afterward. When will you
take that infatuation, that crush, that mind-blowing
attraction to the next level? That's when all sanity goes
back, you sit down and contemplate whether you want to make
this into a concrete relationship or just a fling.

If you decide to love a person, even with his faults,
that's not a chance. That's choice. When you choose to be
with a person, no matter what, that's choice. 

Even if you
take that infatuation, that crush, that mind-blowing
attraction to the next level? That's when all sanity goes
back, you sit down and contemplate whether you want to make
this into a concrete relationship or just a fling.

If you decide to love a person, even with his faults,
that's not a chance. That's choice. When you choose to be
with a person, no matter what, that's choice. Even if you
know there are many people out there who are more
attractive, smarter, and richer than your mate, and yet,
you decide to love your mate just the same, that's choice.

Infatuation, crushes, attraction comes to us by chance. But
true love that lasts is truly a choice. A choice that we
make.

Regarding soul mates, there's a beautiful movie quote that I
believe is so true about this: "Fate brings you together,
but it's still up to you to make it happen."

I do believe that soul mates do exist. That there is truly
someone made for you. But it's still up to you to make the
choice if you're going to do something about it or not. We
may meet our soul mates by chance, but loving and staying
with our soul mate is still a choice we have to make.